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💕FORGIVENESS TO COMMUNION💕
"Divinity holds no victims,
including the self.
When I give up my pride,
I give up judging myself.
The judgement of others also disappears from my heart.
My heart is free to love fully,
without being stifled by fears and limits.
Divine Trust of Divine Love."
Lynette Wiest
🌟On This Page🌟
1-video- 💕Forgiveness Is This!💕
3-video- 💕How To Forgive; Why To Let Go💕
5-video- 💕FORGIVENESS Gives POWER (Not Vulnerability). LETTING GO💕
6-DOES FORGIVENESS EMPOWER YOU OR MAKE YOU VULNERABLE?
7-video- 💕Forgiveness Sets Me Free💕
9-video- 💕FORGIVENESS is Key: Understanding Our Communion💕
10-FORGIVENESS is Key to Communion
11-Video- 💖UPGRADE AWARENESS & EMPOWER Your MIND For Greater Purposes, Insights & Goals💖
💕Forgiveness Is This!💕
This is a video about what FORGIVENESS IS & Is Not
"The question is not what you look at,
but what you see."
Henry David Thoreau
WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?
Forgiveness is the acknowledgment of reality, while simultaneously freeing your mind and your emotions from hyper-focus on, or attachment to, an offense or problem. Forgiveness IS NOT the denial of reality, or pain, or consequence. Forgiveness is emotional freedom from the problem. This protects your mind and heart, while you experience the reality of the situation.
Whether we are noticing it or not, we are always mentally and emotionally balancing both what we see as real and what we wish was real. When thoughts or feelings get glued to, or stuck on what we see is wrong, it is difficult to free our minds to create the next steps towards what we want.
Your mind is your steering wheel. The direction, or trajectory on which you set and send your mind is where your life is headed.
There is a difference between Forgiving and Pardoning - and the trajectory of outcomes between the two can be very different. To Pardon is to remove consequences, or to excuse an offense. Forgiveness is what you do for yourself, empowering yourself to have clarity of mind and emotional stability, despite the situation. Forgiveness does not assume a removal of natural consequences or a removal of relationship boundaries. In fact, forgiveness may help you more clearly see how to implement healthy consequences. It protects your mind and emotions from suffering further damage, while acknowledging naturally occurring consequences may be in order.
The effects of forgiveness may ripple out into your relationships with others, but the primary effect of forgiveness is what it does within you. It changes you from being reactive about an issue, to having the freedom and power to proactively choose the trajectory of your thoughts and emotions, despite problems. It stops your mental or emotional reactivity towards something you don’t want, by removing unhealthy emotional attachments.
Your emotional intelligence and mental awareness create your evolution as a person. The mental condition of forgiveness gives you a broader and deeper awareness, allowing you to mentally evolve without the emotional reactions that would send your mind into an evolutionary cul-da-sac. Forgiveness protects you from toxic thoughts and emotions that could pollute your mental activity and wisdom.
Rumi said, “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
Forgiveness is a paradox. It is a state of emotionally letting go of what you want in the moment, in order to have a clearer mind to understand the problem, create solutions, and create your next steps towards your goals. Be in the world of reality, but don’t let your life purposes be limited by it. In the paradox of forgiveness, you are in a state of letting go of what you thought should be happening in order to create your best life. So how does this paradox operate? Humans live in the constant space between what is real and what we think reality should be. To not forgive is to be in a mental state of opposition against what is real - a state of mental and emotional weakness. With forgiveness you are able to see the problem more clearly, beyond the limited context, seeing potentials and steps forward - despite the problem. This requires letting go of the paradigm that says, "I already see the whole context." Be open to the potential of a broader context than you yet know. If you think you have all the proper metrics to determine how right or wrong something is, then you believe you have all the tools to be able to measure the problem relative to its entire place in all existence. Refusing to believe there is a larger context than you know is to be stuck in a mental and emotional cul-da-sac and self-fulfilling prophecy.
In situations where a consequence must occur, forgiveness detaches you from mental and emotional dependency on the status of any remaining consequences or payments. This frees your emotions from being controlled by a price or a debt yet to be paid. Forgiveness does not allow your emotional health to be dependent on, or ongoingly controlled by, a toxic entity. There are times when your emotions will signal to you about a problem. That’s beneficial. But emotionally staying in that moment, as time moves forward, is painful.
Letting yourself be emotionally or mentally controlled by something or someone you find distasteful can lead to feelings of desperation, hate, isolation, weakness, helpless, and worse. This steals your attention and energy away from your actual goals, from your emotional freedom from the offense, and from problem resolution.
To forgive is to not let your mind be controlled by toxic or detrimental emotions. Forgiveness means letting go of emotional thought patterns which create weakness in you. When your thoughts stop being controlled by emotions, you have the strength and responsibility to build intentional thought patterns which support and further your life’s purposes and your love in the world. Forgiveness is the letting go of barriers preventing your full awareness of love in the world, freeing your mind and emotions from being controlled by anything not of love.
Many religions say forgiveness is the ultimate cleanser of obstacles between one’s subjective experience and the experience of Heaven. Consider the idea that seeing life through a clear lens of love brings Heaven into your experience of life on Earth.
Forgiveness is able to cleanse and heal your mind so that you see the clarity of your Love, and the clarity of what Love is able to do around & through you, despite your pain. By forgiving, you are free to choose which thoughts you use to create the trajectory of your life.
Trust thoughts built on love - more than you trust distractions tempting you away from thoughts of love. To trust or worship the idea that there is something more powerful than love is in some religions called ”blasphemy”. Forgiveness clears away the idea that there is anything able to end your awareness of / ability to Love. Forgiveness refocuses you away from distractions and back to the clarity of your loving wisdom. Be in the world, but not limited by it. Be in the world, but not of the world. Thoughts and goals operating apart from your love will become your emotional quick-sands. Thoughts & goals that hold love are powerful and unstoppable.
Thoughts coming from fear try to describe the future; while thoughts coming from forgiveness know the present. We can know some of the present truth. We cannot know the future. Forgiveness responds to everything, both past and present, good and bad, internal or external, with the same Courage of Love, free from attachment to any thought or goal not of love.
In the Spanish language, when you say the word Sin, you are saying the English word “without”. I think of sin as whatever is without love. It’s is not a loss of love; it is a distraction from love. Love cannot be overpowered by sin. Sin disappears when love is present - like light entering darkness. Imagining life without love would, of course, bring destructive thoughts, emotions, and actions. This is why some religions say it is a sin to not forgive. Let go of thinking there is power in what is only a distraction from Love’s reality. Love’s power is infinite and effective.
In love’s powerful, yet humble state of mind, the ideas of sin and blame are transcended. When we are humble, we admit we don’t know everything. We can trust love makes us wiser. We become willing and able to see the possibility to love in every situation.
Where do you have to let go of what you see through eyes of destructive emotions? Forgiveness cleanses these emotions. Forgiveness comes from the courage of trusting love. Trust love, and you will see love at work through you and around you.
The territory of your heart is wise. Live in this territory, think from this territory. Respond to all others with your power of Love. Love is not dependent on the status of problems. Pour love into any area of your mind that is empty of love. Power pours love in; the opposite is to react – which means to try to force something. Flow, don’t force. Love’s power is not dependent on being against anything. Angst brings reactivity and anxiety, stopping the flow of power. Do not depend on anything except love. Share what you will, and continue creating your infinite evolution. Your life echoes into all lives – Forever!
💕How To Forgive & Why To Let Go💕
9 Keys To Forgiveness
HOW TO FORGIVE
When we know how and why to forgive, we can intentionally employ forgiveness - even in areas where it is most difficult. Overtime, we can see that forgiveness strengthens our minds and our lives. Forgiveness is what you do for yourself.
9 KEYS TO FORGIVENESS
KEY #1
You have to have A REASON to motivate your forgiveness. Forgiveness requires sustained effort to let go of emotional triggers, and create strong, powerful responses and solutions to problems.
3 popular reasons to motivate forgiveness:
Reason #1
Forgiveness clears your mind of the mental and emotional quicksands of hyper-focusing on, and being emotionally charged by, what you don’t want. You can then see beyond the problem and see how to create solutions for goals and relationships you do want. Forgiveness ends emotional pain’s control of you, despite whatever emotions do exist. The best solutions require understanding a larger context than that which is limited by the problem. Forgiveness provides this larger context by clearing away emotional and mental barriers, and distractions, so you have a clear and broad understanding of problems in the larger context that also includes solutions. This clarity is needed in order to create safe mental, emotional, and physical boundaries, especially in difficult or confusing relationships.
Reason #2
If you are addicted to unhealthy patterns of thinking, feeling, or behaving, forgiveness will start to unravel the mental patterns that hold your addiction in place. Emotional triggers lose their emotional charge, as your thought patterns shift from destructive to constructive patterns. You may experience the discomfort of letting go. This discomfort is expected, as some people do experience withdrawal while recovering from letting go of unhealthy patterns.
Reason #3
Forgiveness frees you from being mentally frozen in the false belief that a price must be paid before you can be free from emotional attachments to a problem. You can be free from feeling like you are an emotional hostage or victim of someone else’s decisions. Forgiveness reboots your brain, letting you operate from your wisdom, and from a more loving and expanded paradigm.
KEY #2
The 2nd KEY to forgiveness is about your mental position. Consciously and intentionally CHOOSE your MENTAL POSITION, rather than building it on an emotional reaction. How you focus your mind, your mental positions, and your mental patterns determines your ability to forgive and the way you experience life.
Choose mental positions which increase your understanding of a problem accurately, while also keeping you clear of mental confusion and emotional pollution. To do this, you must balance both the problem and the possibilities in a given moment. Henry David Thoreau said, "The question is not what you look at, but what you see."
In our minds, there are always two states of being - the real and the ideal. The real is what we live in at the given moment. Also, in any given moment, our minds are envisioning, and working to create the ideal. As we move towards the ideal, our minds expand the ideal out further. Because we’re always in this state of reaching for the ideal, we never seem to create and get to the ideal. What we see as a lack of the ideal in the real is where to let go emotionally. This is forgiveness - shifting away from emotional focus on, and reaction to, the apparent gap or lack. Shift your mental and emotional connections towards the ideal. This decreases the emotional pollution. Be clear, durable, and empowered in the current reality, while striving towards the ideal. You can envision the ideal possibility, despite the pain of reality, in order to motivate and navigate your way into forgiveness. This is like getting to forgiveness through the back door. Let go of dependency on a problem mindset, and you arrive at the next step towards the ideal, creating your next version of the ideal. This is one of the balancing acts in which we live our lives; balancing between the real and the ideal, while including both.
A religious example is the idea that death is real, heaven is ideal, and forgiveness brings death and heaven together. Consider this: what if heaven does not require a physical transition to death, but a mental transition to see more of love’s possibilities? Forgiveness can dissolve any barriers to seeing the power and durability of your love. Forgiveness can bring the reality of being alive, and the ideal of heaven, together - “Heaven on earth”.
Don’t let problems hijack your mind. Be aware of them, but don’t give them power over you. See beyond the problem to see the solutions.
Realize your version of reality is a mental mirror of your belief system. It creates your context of understanding and your world view. Your version of the ideal is what you believe is best, and excludes what you believe is wrong. The difference between your real and ideal can leave you waiting on the ideal, as if what you see is wrong in the real must disappear before you can move past it towards the ideal. But, you can let go of being mentally frozen on what you believe is wrong. Hold it as real, while being willing to move past it towards the possibilities in the ideal. Only from an ever-evolving mindset can you evolve your reality towards your next ideal mental position. This requires humility - admitting that from your current mental position, you don’t know everything. Each mental position sees reality from a different angle (a different perceptual context) with different information. As a result, the other positions may appear less valid to you. This comparison, or competition, limits your evolution and forgiveness. To get past this: 1) look beyond the differences, and envision the ideal; 2) mentally put yourself into the ideal, and see your point of view from there; 3) from the ideal mindset, look back into the current reality of yourself; and 4) let go of whatever of yourself does not belong in the ideal. This is the evolving point of view to hold, as you create your steps forward. Seeing from your ideal point of view, while within the real, creates forgiveness. Forgiveness releases the weight of the pain and problems, opening pain up to healing and solutions.
KEY #3
TRUST is required in order to maintain a state of forgiveness.
Look beyond what you believe is falling short of the ideal and you can trust that both the real and ideal are operating together in every given moment. As soon as the ideal becomes real, we expand the ideal. This is a constant state of evolving forgiveness. You see your own evolution as you notice that what you learn at one point in time means something deeper to you overtime - your real and ideal evolving together. When we believe the real and ideal are not working together, we feel helpless - as if we will never experience what we hope for. Trust! Let go of believing the gap between real and ideal is hopeless.
Intentionally evolve only what supports your purpose and your ideal life; not what supports your misery. Even though the real and ideal seem separate, as you hold them in your mind, they exist together. The ideal wants to be in the real, and the real wants to be in the ideal. Expand the context of your awareness to trust they are working together in one reality.
Because the overall gain of forgiveness may require time, trust closes the gap of time, releasing you from being stuck in pain, and moving you towards the ideal. In this way, you can have immediate mental and emotional liberation. When you trust the larger context that includes both reality and ideality, you change yourself. This changes everything you impact. In time, the ripple effect of forgiveness in your life becomes immeasurable.
KEYS #4 & 5
The 4th & 5th keys to forgiveness are VALIDATION & COURAGE. Give validation and compassion to yourself in your pain. At at the same time, be aware of your resilience. This gives you the Courage to move beyond the pain and into forgiveness.
Pain is a message telling you where to pay attention, where to give yourself compassion, and where to let go. If you deny your pain, it will be difficult to understand what problem to address, what to keep, what to release, and how to care for yourself.
Embrace your power to let go of what you thought was in your way. Use Courage to respect your emotions, while you make decisions based on your purposes and your integrity (not based on emotional pain).
If the pain stays with you, this does not mean you haven’t forgiven. Forgiveness ends pain’s control of you, despite whatever pain exists. Courage lets you disentangle your mind and emotions from being controlled by problems. Devote your mind to the goals of your heart. To commit your mind to anything else blocks you from the bigger picture of your powerful, durable, and evolving purposes. Focusing on what you don’t want is painful, and can be destructive. Respond to everything, both good and bad, with the same Courage.
KEYS #6 & #7
The 6th & 7th keys to forgiveness are INSPIRATION & INTEGRITY. Use these to author your thoughts and create your actions. We must think with integrity, in order to understand truth and reality. Without truth, there is nothing real to work with. When we choose thoughts that lack integrity, we suppress the motivation, wisdom, and endurance that our survival depends on. We block ourselves from seeing the reality of a situation, and from seeing the ideal that we could move towards. Without integrity, we are unable to accurately understand our pain. This leaves us vulnerable to the mental quicksands of blame, greed, fear, prejudice, and disrespect – all of which are self-sabotaging.
Your life is created to illuminate love in the world, and to bring more experiences of inspiration into your own life. This requires overriding any thoughts that lack integrity. This is forgiveness. It reboots your brain with the inspiration and wisdom of an expanded paradigm.
Some people talk about Karma as being the Divine system of justice. Karma does NOT show us what to pay for. It shows us where to apply love. The opportunity of karma is to detach from all illusions of debt, and to use only love. This is forgiveness.
Use love to interface with the world, and you will know your real and ideal natures are the same. Each moment offers a perfect opportunity to further your understanding of who you are, without judgement. The laws of Love go far beyond the laws of our limited logic. Human brains do not have omniscient knowledge to accurately understand the cleansing power of love. However, we can use love to clear the illusion of debt, and to experience forgiveness.
KEY #8
The 8th key to forgiveness is SELF-AWARENESS. Self-awareness gives us the clarity to see any thoughts that steal energy from our greatest intentions and goals. Know when you are letting judgment hijack your mind. Hold onto thoughts that create strength, peace, durability, and love. Let go of thoughts that interrupt these.
Some religions address judgmental thoughts by saying, “Do not judge, because it is a sin,” while at the same time saying, "Whoever is without sin can cast the first stone of judgement." How do we square these two seemingly contradictory ideas, as they appear to mean that those without sin can start to commit the sin of judging. It may sound like a mixed message. But it is a completely congruent message: if you don’t hold sin in your mind, you will not judge, even if you are allowed to without being judged for it.
Not holding onto sin in your mind is forgiveness. Be aware of problems, but don’t give them power over your ability to love. A mind that is aware of love’s greater context of purpose is a mind that is free to create life beyond the emotional limits problems create.
KEY #9
The 9th key is RESPONSIBILITY. Take responsibility to let go of emotional thought patterns. When you stop being emotionally controlled, you have the opportunity and responsibility to build thought patterns from love. The territory of your heart is the most important territory in your life. Flood it with love. Where there is emptiness, there is no power. Where there is love, the power of your life is unstoppable. Where there is love, there is forgiveness. Respond to all others with the power of your love and forgiveness. Pour love’s power into any area your mind empty of love. The opposite of power is to react. But your power is not dependent on being oppositional. Angst brings reactivity and anxiety. Do not depend on anything except love. Let love and forgiveness support your evolution.
💕FORGIVENESS Gives POWER - Not Vulnerability 🌟LETTING GO🌟
FORGIVENESS CREATES POWER, NOT VULNERABILITY!
True forgiveness is empowering - Always. Forgiveness is not limited by circumstance. Many people have lost their homes, careers, and children through war, violence, and oppression. Still, they use compassion, communal sharing, and love to empower their purpose and internal peace, despite circumstance. No one can take away the meaning and power of their love. In this way, despite any pain, they experience their true power, and enrich their lives and the lives of those around them.
In this section:
* The relationship of forgiveness with power
* What love has to do with forgiveness
* How boundaries fit into forgiveness
* How to regain the power of forgiveness from where we may have outsourced this power
Forgiveness is the power to let go of unhealthy emotional and mental attachments to whatever you think is in the way of living your best life. Forgiveness can be applied towards oneself, as well as towards others. The greater the offense you attach your mind and emotions to, the more burdensome it is to continue to carry the weight of it forward. Forgiveness reclaims the energy the burden stole from you. Forgiveness relieves you of destructive emotions, gives you mental and emotional clarity, and restores your sense of power.
When you apply forgiveness towards another person, the forgiveness is not something you do for the other person. It is a gift you give yourself. Rather than expending energy to focus on evaluating someone else, nourish yourself by letting go of a toxic focus. You can then engage in powerful and productive steps forward in your life.
To forgive is NOT to forget. Forgiveness protects you from emotional harm by freeing you from emotional attachment to anything obstructing the power of your heart and mind. The degree you claim responsibility for your power to forgive, is the degree you have the power choose what to let go of and what to keep on your life’s path.
Whether forgiveness is applied to others or to yourself, it breaks the mental and spiritual chain of recycling pain into more pain. The key is to have compassion for the reality of your pain, while also discontinuing carrying the mental burden of the past with you into the future. Forgiveness frees your mind to let go of thoughts that create an emotional attachment to the offense and original pain.
When forgiveness is applied to oneself, you surrender the idea of self-punishment, judgment, and beating yourself up for past, present, or imagined future errors. While it is important to learn from past mistakes, it is a new mistake to carry guilt or regret forward. Forgiveness comes from your power in the present moment.
If you refuse to use the power of forgiveness, you make yourself vulnerable to the power of unhealthy emotions (e.g., resentment, blame, fear, and hatred). Lack of forgiveness creates the belief that the future is made of the past. This creates a self-fulfilling prophesy and ongoing unhealthy emotions. Unhealthy emotions limit your clarity of mind and your power in the present. Forgiveness gives you more clarity to understand your true power in the present moment.
If you refuse to forgive yourself, forgive your lack of forgiveness. Forgive yourself for judging yourself. Forgiveness is where self-punishment ends, and the freedom to responsibly move forward is given power. Forgiving hearts are free to love - not frozen in guilt or blame. Take a self-inventory. Ask yourself, “Am I carrying they weight of any shame, or judgement, or resentment for my own actions, or for my lack of action, or for the actions of others?" Forgiveness alleviates emotional suffering and frees your mind.
Forgiveness is, ironically, a kind of justice. It heals the heart of the forgiver. Justice can be what you do for yourself - setting yourself free from the agony of carrying the weight of the offense. Forgiveness is the opposite of emotional debt. It clears unhealthy emotional attachment and unhealthy emotional control, including resentment, guilt, and blame.
When you let go of any attitudes blocking your forgiveness, you allow a life of love and purpose to unfold in your path. Examples of lives immersed in forgiveness are MLK, Jesus of Nazareth, and Corrie Ten Boom who watched her family members be murdered in a concentration camp. Through forgiveness, these three were free to walk their paths of great purpose - free from dependence on anything not of love. Forgiveness can clear our paths too, so we can move forward into our greatest purposes, despite the hurt in our lives.
Empowering your life is your responsibility. It requires embracing all of yourself, including previous decisions and choices that ended in seeming disaster. While you don't want to continue in unhealthy ways, you can embrace the times in your past which may have looked bad, but were actually critical turning points. These set you up to learn more about forgiveness, unconditional love, and about your power to move forward despite the past.
When you refuse to forgive, you create a glass ceiling for your life’s possibilities and purposes. You limit how high you can rise by using the weight of unhealthy emotional attachment to anchor yourself to offense. The weight is the emotional attachment - the weight is not the offense.
Emotional weight is where vulnerability lives. Unhealthy emotional weight prevents you from seeing beyond the pain and from knowing your power, your purposes and possibilities. The refusal to forgive is a devotion to a painful and troublesome path. The decision to forgive increases the power of your life and your love. Love goes beyond typical logic. Reality beyond logic is sometimes called a “miracle”. Love can nourish your mind with possibilities you have not yet considered.
Because forgiveness protects us from toxic emotional energy, forgiveness may include implementing clear and strong relationship boundaries. Healthy boundaries are not reactive. They are based on facts from the context of what is best for you in relation to others. The ability to implement boundaries comes from your internal power and extends outward.
Without forgiveness, decisions about boundaries are often created from toxic emotions. Ironically, sometimes people think that boundaries created from blame, or resentment or hatred, can protect or give security. Boundaries made from emotional reactions are called ‘emotionally reactive boundaries’. They drain your energy and hinder mental abilities. This is because emotional reactiveness outsources your decision-making power. It outsources this power to the control and stress of what you don't forgive. It is not that you lose your power; but you hide your power from yourself by believing your power is dependent on what you think others should do (thus outsourcing your decision-making power TO what you think is wrong), rather than setting boundaries from your wisdom about what is best for you. Healthy boundaries are NOT reactive. They are based on the facts about what is best for you in relation to others. The power to create these comes from within yourself.
Another way of outsourcing the power to forgive is to rely on institutions to decide when it is OK to forgive. While we want to surround ourselves with healthy institutions, decisions of emotional self-care are a personal responsibility, and not to be outsourced to institutions (e.g., politics, religion, economics, culture, etc.). Forgiveness has to be independent of others’ decisions or directions. If you think you should outsource your power, you make yourself dependent on external entities, and you set yourself up to feeling helpless, dependent, vulnerable, and anxious. These feelings create toxic chemicals in the brain. They produce further thoughts of blame, resentment, and disappointment – becoming a self-fulfilling emotional feedback loop.
If your forgiveness is conditional, you exclude yourself from the powerful freedom to let go of unhealthy emotional weight. To the degree you claim responsibility for the power to forgive, you have the power to choose what to let go of and what to keep in your life. There is no place for blame in the power of forgiveness. Forgiveness has nothing to blame, because it has no limits - it can not be limited. It can be ignored by the ignorant idea that forgiveness is controlled by an external source. Forgiveness is controlled by you, not by an external source. You are the one responsible for your forgiving. Your decide how much to unleash the cleansing power of Forgiveness in your life.
A life in and of love is not something to GET or search for. It is already waiting within you. When you let go of all the limits you created with anything not made of love, and when you let go of thinking you can judge your way into life’s purposes, then the limits dissolve and you find your best life.
Ironically, people often think that something created from blame, hatred, or anything not of love, can protect or create the experience of peace and love. But it is in embracing unconditional love that you can let go of, and transcend, what is not of love. This is how Forgiveness works. Forgiveness sets us free from being emotionally controlled by anything not of love.
Love’s power is not dependent on being against anything. Angst brings reactivity and anxiety, and stops the flow of power. The territory of your heart is the most important territory in your life. Flood it with love. Where the territory is void of love, there is no power. Where there is love, the power is unstoppable. Respond to all others’ paths with your power of unconditional Love. Practice, and become automatic about this. Pour love into any area empty of love. Power pours love in. The opposite of Power is to react, or to try to force something. Power forgives and transcends any territory void of love. Use power, not force.
Don’t depend on anything except love. Share what you will, and continue on your path. When you see through eyes of truth and love, you see all life has a greater purpose than what is already known. Let go of any other perception.
If others judge you, forgive them. Set yourself free from an emotional attachment to their judgement. Toxic emotional energy is never a beneficial connection with another person. The most beneficial response to judgement is to forgive, learn, and move forward - emotionally free.
Extending love’s mercy to yourself and to others empowers you and detaches you from harmful thoughts and emotions. Ancient wisdoms and Sacred texts describe the nourishment of forgiveness as "Eating from the Tree Of Life". They describe emotional attachment to judgement as poison from the “Tree of Good and Evil”. In many descriptions, the Tree of Life provides heaven, and the Tree of Good and Evil creates the subjective experience of separation from love.
Eat from The Tree Of Life! 😊
💕Forgiveness Sets Me Free💕
FORGIVENESS SETS ME FREE
"My Heart’s Forgiveness holds no victims, no hostages, including myself. When I give up my pride, I give up judging myself. The judgement of others also disappears from my heart. My heart is free to love fully, without being stifled by fears and limits. Forgiveness is Divine Trust of Divine Love."
“My Heart’s Forgiveness holds no victims, no hostages, including myself.”
What does this mean? Forgiveness sets us free from the idea that we are dependent on a price being paid before we can be free from unpleasant mental and emotional attachments. To be held hostage is to be held until a price is paid. When you refuse to forgive, you hold your own mind and emotions hostage, sometimes in a victim state, believing someone must pay a price or understand your point of view before you can be okay.
Forgiveness sets you free from feeling like an emotional hostage or victim, and free to care for yourself and the situation in empowering ways. When you invest mental and emotional energy in believing someone owes you something before you can fully move forward, your mental energy is diverted away from living your best life. Your energy then becomes dependent on the other person’s understandings and decisions.
Letting go of mental and emotional dependency lightens your emotional burden. It frees your mind to create your best self, free from the limits and pain of being an emotional victim or hostage. Forgiveness frees you from stealing attention away from your love and self-care. This frees you to create your best life.
“When I give up my pride, I give up judging myself.”
To fully appreciate this idea, recognize two things:
1- Our brains can’t see the larger context and purposes that our actions, or lack of actions, operate within. False pride tells us that we are able to see the largest context for our lives. But beyond our current ability to comprehend, to know, and to perceive, there is an infinite context that each moment of our lives is operating within. Because of this, any measuring or judging we do is naïve. We operate in a context of breath and depth that is beyond our brains’ ability to understand.
2- Shame, resentment, and blame create never-ending quick-sands of emotional debts we are unable to pay. This is because shame, resentment, and blame come from our ignorant belief that we are able to understand the scope and context of everything. When we think we can measure how right or wrong an action or lack of action is, we then think we can decide an appropriate self-punishment.
Even when our actions limit our own experience of peace and joy, when we forgive ourselves, we place ourselves back into the role of helping to create a wonderful world. Forgiveness frees us from self-induced debts, self-punishment, and sacrificial mental and emotional impairments that keep us from living our full purposes.
When our minds are not frozen in guilt, blame, and resentment, our hearts are free to love. Forgiveness frees us of the arrogant idea that we are able to measure and judge ourselves accurately. It frees us of the shame that results from judging ourselves. Forgiveness resurrects our hearts to focus beyond what our limited minds thought, freeing us to create and evolve self-respect and self-confidence. It frees us to love ourselves and live our best lives for the world around us. We can surrender the idea of sacrifice, of beating ourselves up for past, present, or imagined future errors.
Forgiving ourselves frees our minds to see consequences and outcomes more clearly. With this clarity, we are able to learn the more loving steps forward. Past choices and actions that ended in seeming disaster may have been necessary turning-points to learn more about love’s presence and strength. While we don't want to continue in unhealthy ways, we can embrace the opportunity to create new ways of being, from the ashes of the old.
The more we forgive ourselves, the more available our minds and emotions are to more freely give and receive Love, and to embrace all the parts of ourselves.
“The judgement of others also disappears from my heart.”
It is impossible for us to define and judge how others should live their lives. When we try to, we waste mental and emotional energy and time. We limit our own access to empathy and compassion.
Forgiveness sets us free from wasting this energy. It empowers acceptance of reality, of who others are, even when it hurts. When we accept reality, we can make informed and clear decisions about how to navigate the complex social matrix in which we live our lives. We can create loving boundaries with others, enabling us to let our love out into the world, while not allowing what is toxic into our minds, hearts, and emotions.
Forgiveness empowers us to have unconditional love for everyone, independent of our circumstances, and independent of others’ choices. We can choose to forgive based on who we are, not dependent on who someone else is.
Forgiveness frees us from making decisions based on unhealthy emotions. It clears and shifts our minds to deeply recognize the love within ourselves. This is why we can love everyone. Love is not a reaction to others; love is an extension of oneself. To love some lives, and not others, is an unhealthy reaction. But the power of Love’s forgiveness is not reactive. Forgiveness is a power that is not dependent on another person.
"My heart is free to love fully, without being stifled by fears & limits.”
With forgiveness, we are free from having to use emotional energy to maintain boundaries. We can let down our "guard" of emotional angst. We can trust healthy boundaries, and love freely. In this way, forgiveness sets us free from emotional attachment to anything not of love. This opens us to all of love.
Love is the ONLY thing that can withstand ANY thing. Through Love, we create our greatest purposes and connections. Forgiveness sets us free from being emotionally controlled by anything that is not of love.
Refusing to forgive traps you in a false prison where it is difficult to access love. When we are in this mental prison, we make toxic predictions of the future, and toxic interpretations of the past. Don’t use the moment of now to contemplate a toxic future or a past experience. Use this moment to embrace the present truth of your love and your power.
“Forgiveness is Divine Trust of Divine Love.”
Forgiveness sets us free to trust that every bit of experience has a purpose beyond what the human brain can comprehend. Your only territory of existence is the path you create. This territory is completely embedded in a field of many paths, a matrix field. In this matrix field, there are spaces overflowing with love, there are spaces open for love’s power to increase, and there are null (or empty) spaces / voids that we humans don’t understand. But we can know that our power increases as we fill all spaces with Love. When we judge, we lose trust. When we forgive, we find open spaces within ourselves and our world to trust, and to increase the power of our love. This is Divine Creation.
💕We don’t force a replacement of ‘bad’ with ‘good’. We participate in the power of Love’s expansion and infinite evolution, as it grows to fill all of life.💕
💕FORGIVENESS is Key: Understanding Our Communion💕
FORGIVENESS is Key to Communion
Forgiveness is key to understanding the connections and relationship boundaries of our global communion. It is so important we achieve the awareness we need in order to create our best lives and global relationship solutions that are beneficial and advantageous to everyone.
Communion is our greatest resource. Forgiveness frees our minds and hearts to wisely access and invest in the Communion we are embedded in.
Forgiveness is about transcending the limits of problems, not about allowing problems. We can only transcend these limits when we have clear minds to access Communion.
Keep in mind:
1-Communion does not require forgiveness.
2-Humans require forgiveness in order to recognize Communion.
Forgiveness informs and enriches our understandings, so we can create solutions that are more powerful than any problem. Without forgiveness, we tend to understand problems and solutions by limiting focus mainly on the problem. Because of this, we create solutions which are limited by the problems. Forgiveness clears your mind and emotions of anything that is obstructing your access to clarity and wisdom. In this, you can intentionally create your goals from a greater context. Access problems from the larger context. Respond with solutions that empower the goals for your greatest purposes.
Forgiveness does not aim to dissolve rules, consequences, or relationship boundaries. In fact, consequences and relationship boundaries that serve and protect us make it easier to forgive; and forgiveness makes us clearer in setting rules and boundaries.
Communion is like the forest of life. It connects everything, including some uncomfortable trees. In any forest, there are natural boundaries, connections, and consequences. Forgiveness is what we do for ourselves, in order to see the forest’s connections of life more. Communion is the way we’re all connected. Each tree of perceived offense is information. It is not supposed to be a mental magnet that distracts us and keeps our minds from realizing the whole forest. See clearly, despite the unwanted trees of pain and offense in our experiences.
Our lives each impact all others. We must use our minds and hearts to see the larger reality, beyond any pain or offense. Otherwise, we become blinded by our trees of emotion and reactivity. If we hyper-focus on what we believe is wrong, we lose sight of what is intrinsically important to us. Forgiveness helps us solve this problem by letting us see the broader context to make the ongoing creation of Communion our main focus.
Forgiveness is not easy, and some would say it is an internal art form. It gives you the power to create a life of purpose beyond troubles. No one else can create your life for you. To create your best life, remember you are so much more than the things that happen to you.
Unforgiving mindsets block us from the resources of our Communion. Forgiveness is a key to accessing Communion’s resources. Consider this quote: “We each participate in the Communion we can never exist without. Communion is already our reality, and each life is an integral element. Communion creates us as we are created within it. Minds of forgiveness see the mental and emotional safety and freedom of Communion, the reality in which we all exist.” We are each a very small part of an infinite system of life. Each life is complete, and each needs the others in order to live. Decisions to forgive, or not, determine how you connect with others. You will connect with Love or with angst. Love empowers your freewill and power of choice. Angst empowers emotional reactivity and a sense of being controlled by what is unforgiven.
Forgiveness clears your mind from focusing on what you don’t want, so you can clearly see the relationship connections that best serve you. Without forgiveness, we become reactive victims of pain and offense. Free yourself from being emotionally controlled by any thought in your head that is not beneficial.
The degree you use forgiveness is the degree you have personal agency to create a life beyond pain. Let go of negative mental and emotional barriers blocking you from your awareness of your purpose in Communion.
When your mind is hyper-focused on what you see is wrong, you are distracted from healthy thinking and can become attached to problematic words, actions, and suffering. We can’t use emotional attachment to negativity if we want to participate in, and uplift, our purposes in Communion. Emotional attachment to negativity obstructs us from Communion’s resources, distracts us from our purposes, and creates a sense of division and opposition. In contrast, the greatest and healthiest resource we have in our Communion is the power, endurance, and strength of the tissue that connects us. This is the powerful connective tissue of Love. Communion’s power is not dependent on being against anything.
Your Love, and your reverence for all of life, reveal and empower your greatest purposes in our Communion. While boundaries such as rules and consequences address external issues, forgiveness addresses internal issues. It empowers you to be responsible for your life’s purposes. Do not make your life’s purposes dependent on, or controlled by, others. By using the power of unconditional love, your choices for purpose can better create safety and security for everyone. Clear away anything preventing your mind from experiencing your greatest powers. You don’t need to be able to see the whole picture of Communion in order to see your greatest purposes and roles in the co-creation of our evolution.
The resources of Communion are available by TRUSTING the larger context of Communion. We lose sight of communion when we believe our lives are simply the outcome of external factors bearing down on us. But the external factors are, in part, an outcome of everyone’s internal experiences expressed and integrated together. It is each of our responsibilities to intentionally use our minds and hearts for the benefit of our Communion.
Forgiveness allows us the wisdom to be humble enough to that admit we don’t know everything. Be willing to see beyond dysfunctional solutions of division and blame. See valuable solutions and possibilities created from unconditional love.
If you devote yourself to a limited perceptual context of offense/defense, you block forgiveness and are unable to see the larger context. This is how emotional attachment to offense occurs. Emotional attachment results in decisions made from emotional reactivity, rather than from the larger goals that can benefit your life.
Forgiveness promotes self-care. Even in cases where there is ongoing offense or abuse, it is still important to forgive – so you have the clarity of mind for creating safe boundaries, navigating emotional pain in healthy ways, taking care of yourself, and deciding on beneficial goals.
Think about situations where you use blame to create reactive emotions and reactive solutions. Use courage to let go of the blame. Look for solutions from a larger context. In a broader context, you can see great purposes and solutions of love working through you.
We hear the religious ideas that sins can exclude someone from communion, and that we need to forgive sins. What is sin? In the Spanish language, when you say the word ‘sin’, you are saying the English word 'without'. Consider that sin is whatever is without love.
Whatever is without love is a distraction from the awareness of Communion. A distraction cannot break Communion. When we believe an offense is so great that there is justification to exclude someone from Communion, we can use forgiveness to dissolve this belief. Also, implement and enforce loving and responsible mental, emotional, and physical boundaries.
Thinking we can exclude someone from the Communion of life comes from ignorance about the realities of life. Ignoring reality weakens us and interrupts our ability to put wise and loving boundaries in place. Ignorance about love does not destroy love.
Love is the true and powerful connective tissue of Communion. Love is our greatest resource. If you are not aware of Communion, you wont feel you are a part of Communion. But, a lack of awareness does not cause an actual disconnect from Communion. It causes a distraction in our minds and our subjective experiences.
The more we forgive, the more we see the connections of Communion, despite the discomfort of our belief that Communion was broken or disturbed. Some religions that talk about sin say forgiveness creates a victory, or a power, over sin. Forgiveness empowers our minds and emotions to experience the reality of Communion. As we let go of distractions from love, we are forgiven, we forgive, and we are more aware of Communion.
Every life is within Communion. We cannot change or control this. Communion has its own blueprint. If we try to control communion, we stop serving our communion, and we block our understanding of its broader context. Communion’s blueprint benefits all, regardless of our attempts to judge or measure who deserves to benefit.
Communion is made of unconditional love. If we outsource our power to a blueprint we create with anything other than love, our thoughts become focused on and attached to what we do not want.
Communion is reliable. It sustains all of our lives’ purposes. We can stop manipulating and maneuvering agendas of division. All our strengths and purposes are embedded in the evolution of Communion. Focusing on limits and offense creates a sense of weakness in your important link in the evolving web of life. Every second that we have a glimpse of our Communion, we access the power to respond to everything with wisdom. Be free from believing anything can destroy the reality of Communion.
Each of us has a unique existence within our Communion. This means that natural relationship boundaries do exist. The more you know yourself, the more you know what boundaries empower you. In Communion, when one element impinges on another, consequences occur. Nature is full of examples. If an animal were to eat more than its fair share, it would get sick. If a tree were to take too much water, it would die. Our best experience in Communion requires committed connections and relationships that benefit everyone.
Although we can’t see the entire blueprint of Communion, we can each trust that it benefits all of us. Each life is created from this One blueprint. When someone appears outside of Communion, remember the blueprint - the bigger picture. Every life is significant, even when it doesn’t seem to operate with Love. See and hold that person’s Love for them until they can see it in you. This requires forgiveness - a letting go of negative mental and emotional attachments, in order to understand the value and power of your connection to every single life.
In order to know the full experience of Communion, we must love all lives. The more we acknowledge Communion, the more we empower our own life. This includes an ongoing forgiveness for ourselves, to fully experience ourselves embedded in Communion.
How does forgiveness open our mental and emotional access to Communion’s resources? Forgiveness lifts the veil of ignorance from our minds, clearing away our naive reliance on divisive agendas. With a clear mind, we see that sin is not a loss of communion; it is a distraction from communion. Communion itself can’t be overpowered by a distraction.
The idea of sin is a placeholder for the false idea that love is absent. Sin disappears when love is present - like light entering darkness. Imagining life without love brings anxiety and fear. Let go of thinking there is power in what is only a distraction away from Communion’s infinite power.
With forgiveness, the idea of sin is transcended. Remember these two points:
1-Communion does not require forgiveness.
2-Humans require forgiveness in order to recognize Communion.
Forgiveness lets us transcend our previous viewpoint, in order to see the sacredness of this world we live in. This brings clarity and personal healing, revealing Communion to all of us.
Forgiveness lets us see beyond separation and judgment. We see what is true - the perfection of Divine creation. Just as a flower can’t grow from just a seed, and it has symbiotic relationship with other lives in order to grow into a lifegiving source, this is also true for human life. We are each like a flower, in a field of wild flowers. Any one flower’s position or perspective can’t see or even comprehend the whole field.
Your life evolves within this Communion. The infinite resources of our communion are available when devotion to a limited perspective of problems is let go.
The goals of your heart are the most important part of your life. Nourish them with love. Where goals are void of love, there is no power. Where there is love, the power of the goal is unstoppable. Respond to all with your power of unconditional Love. Do not depend on anything except love. Create your goals in the evolution in Communion.
💖UPGRADE AWARENESS ! EMPOWER Your Purposes/Insights/Goals💖
FORGIVENESS INCREASES AWARENESS
Upgrade your awareness and empower your mind for greater purposes, insights, and goals. In times of difficulty, find purpose and goals beyond the stress or pain of the personal or global situation. In each situation, there are opportunities and limits. The way we contextualize each situation will direct our awareness towards the opportunities, or towards the limits. When we have the tools to upgrade our awareness, we can better contextualize each situation and direct our lives towards opportunities, rather than limits.
Your awareness is your steering wheel. The direction, or trajectory, you send your awareness is where your life (your vehicle) is headed. While many circumstances are outside of our control, in each circumstance there are opportunities and limits to choose from. The way we contextualize each situation will determine our choices.
Your awareness is your tool. How you direct your awareness is one of the most significant factors determining your ability to interpret, understand, and give meaning to your life, and to what is going on in the world.
Do you use your awareness to create actions that have long-term impact, or actions that impact the immediate situation? With a balanced awareness, you realize you are always doing both. Upgrade your awareness and you can choose the kind of impact you want to have for both the long-term & the short-term.
9 Keys To Upgrade Your Awareness and Expand the Capacity of Your Insights and Goals:
Key #1 - Self-Confidence
Self-confidence builds awareness, and awareness builds self-confidence. To upgrade both, let go of thought patterns and belief systems which limit your capacity to see your personal power. This includes letting go of blame, denial of responsibility, hatred, vengeance, and toxic relationship dynamics, just to name a few. Letting go of these types of limits opens your awareness and experience up to more confidence, purpose, and meaning than you thought was possible.
We hold toxic thought patterns because we think they protect us, or somehow make us strong. But in fact, they do the opposite. Let go of toxic thought patterns, in order to free your mind to create greater confidence and possibilities. This may require forgiveness - a clearing away of toxic beliefs and emotions from your life. By letting go of limiting beliefs and thought patterns, you are free to live more confidently. You may still feel fear, but you are not controlled by it.
When love is the focus, confidence will grow, and fear will dissolve over and over. Fear will reappear, but not as a power, just as a signal for you to expand your awareness beyond the problem’s limits. Create solutions which empower you and improve the world. Love does not give up hope, until hope is no longer needed.
In this upgraded awareness, forgiveness actually completes its purpose over and over. This is the ongoing purification of what is called a linear perspective - see Key #2.
Key #2 - Understand The Problem or Issue Beyond the Limits of a Linear Perspective
From a linear perspective, we believe the limited contexts of cause and effect, and of right and wrong, encompass the whole picture. While a linear understanding is necessary, it is limited. If you think you have all the proper metrics to determine how right or wrong something is, or exactly what causes what, then you believe you have all the tools to measure something relative to its entire place in all of existence. Let go of the paradigm that says, "I can already see the whole context", or that says, “This is the total cause of that”. Be open to the potential of a broader context than you yet know, one including factors you are not aware of, and factors that are synthesizing in ways you don’t know. If you refuse to believe there is a larger context than you know, you will be stuck in a mental and emotional cul-da-sac and self-fulfilling prophecy.
Don’t let your head be the only thing informing your head. Instead, trust there is wiser paradigm holding a broader context for you to be aware of - there is more wisdom for you to grow into. Let yourself look deeper to find solutions that use each challenge to uplifting greater purposes.
It is safe to give up competitive pride and the belief that you have to already know more than you do. As your awareness evolves, you will see problems more clearly, beyond the limited context you once had. See your potentials ad steps forward, despite the problems. Let your heart fill your mind with the humility and wisdom needed for further growth and confidence.
Key #3 - Clarify What You Do and Do Not Have Control Over, and What Does and Does Not Control You
Clarify where you have power. We make ourselves ignorant by believing our meaning, purpose, and love are controlled by external sources. But meanings, purposes, and love have no limits. You limit your own awareness of them by limited beliefs about them in your life. They can be ignored. But we are the one's responsible for our awareness of Love's Power and manifestation thru our lives. I have seen people who have lost their homes, their children, their careers, and their freedom. Still they operate in the power and meaning of compassion necessary to create ways to share and have purpose. In this way, they are still able to experience internal joy. They find meaning and power in the love that no one can take from them. In this, they know their true power.
Key #4 - -Realize The Quality Of Life Is Whatever It Is Believed To Be.
We have the choice to see the world through an upgraded paradigm of wisdom. Whatever we believe we are, that is what we see. This is the head informing the head.
Potentials and limits for life are as broad or narrow as what we can imagine. To go further, look deeper. When you look for the essence of who you are, you become more aware of your essential nature. This is the heart informing the head. Look beyond measurements of good and bad. See your life with the wisdom that uplifts your purposes and possibilities.
Believing there is nothing more than you know is an illusion - a wormhole into despair. Greater awareness lets you see more of what love is creating in your life. Despair is actually only a time on the road, not the end of the road. Illusions are distractions from reality and wisdom.
Stay aware of love’s path for your life – this is the purpose for your existence. Be conscious and aware of love’s power. Love is a connective tissue. Understand its non-personal nature. You are embedded in love. You are part of all life. Be aware of your purpose in love’s tissue. Don’t fight it. If you do fight your purposes, all life in love’s tissue will feel your fight. Everything is moving & growing with you in the tissue of love.
Key #5 - Forgiveness Increases Awareness Of Love's Power
Forgiveness does not join love with power. Love already is power. Forgiveness increases your awareness of love's power. Forgiveness decreases your toxic emotions from clouding the power of love’s possibilities for a making a better world.
Make wisdom and love your guides. Don’t follow reactive emotions. As your awareness of love increases, your adherence to reactive emotions decreases.
Forgiveness clears your awareness from being hijacked by emotional reactions that would otherwise send your awareness into an evolutionary cul-da-sac. Forgiveness protects you from toxic thoughts and emotions that could pollute your mental clarity and wisdom.
While it is important to understand problems, without intentional awareness, you can end up hyper-focused on what you believe is wrong,
ending up stuck in a mental prison of reactive emotions. Forgiveness opens the door for your awareness to transcend what use to be emotional barriers keeping you from a greater awareness of meaning and purpose in each situation.
Forgiveness does not create anything new in you. It allows you to shift your awareness to your utmost purposes that are waiting for your attention. Forgiveness dissolves barriers to your wisdom and love, clearing away the idea that what seems wrong can somehow prevent your best next steps.
Upgrade your focus. Shift your focus away from emotional distractions and back to the clarity of love. As you shift into loves powerful purposes for your life, you can see that nothing is as strong, durable, meaningful, and powerful as love and wisdom are.
Be in the world, but not limited by it. When you clear away toxic emotional reactions to the past, present, and future you experience a broader awareness of the present, and you can design a purposeful future.
Key #6 - Expand The Context Of Awareness And Expand The Capacity Of Goals
You create your goals from your current capacity to believe in possibilities. Reality exists within a context that includes all possibilities yet to be chosen from. If you believe there is nothing more about a situation than what you already know, you are believing in an illusion. An illusion is a wormhole into despair. Despair is an emotional reaction to a circumstance on the road of life. Don’t turn an illusion into a wormhole. It is not the end of the road.
There is no power in believing the world must change before you can live your utmost in any given moment. Let go of the idea that something is preventing the ongoing purposes and meanings of your life. If you don’t let go of these, you will be emotionally hijacked by your own thoughts about what you think is in your way. Be in the world, but not limited by its problems. Don’t fight against the problems; increase your awareness and understanding of goals and solutions.
By looking beyond the problem and seeking further possibilities, you find more truth and an expanded context for solutions. The locus of your power, in the context of your purpose, is within your own mind and heart. You are in charge of how you give purpose, meaning, and power to every moment of your life. No one can take away your ability to give purpose to each moment. A problem creates an opportunity for an awareness upgrade. See the problem in the widest awareness possible to you. You never reach your utmost awareness because you are constantly evolving. Be careful not to see a problem as a place to be emotionally stuck, as this will halt, or down-regulate, the awareness that you want. Instead, use awareness to upgrade the meaning and purpose in your goals.
Remember to use forgiveness as a tool to help clear your emotions and balance the reality of the moment with what you want the moment to hold. You can’t always change the world around you. But you are always evolving yourself in every given moment. You are important. As you evolve, your changes ripple out into the world. The more you are aware of this, the more you can decide how to consciously use awareness for the purposes and goals you want your life to have.
Key #7 - Expand The Problem’s Context To Better Understand The Balance Of Factors And Design Solutions
For example, you might be making plans towards reaching a goal. Like any plan, the actual implementation will have unplanned challenges. This is where you need balance between what is happening in the moment, and your goal for the journey. Clear away any hyper-focus on the emotional outcomes of unmet expectations in any given moment. This lets you see the issue or problem more clearly (whether it is inside yourself, or external). As a result, you can implement your best solutions, and create further solutions in case it happens again.
Keep your solutions and goals as the main focus of your awareness. Don’t let your attention be emotionally hijacked by a problem, as this would steal attention away from reaching your goals. Whether your goal is to make a point in a discussion, or to save a species from extinction, when you clear your mind of toxic emotions, you upgrade your awareness with greater context, focus, and wisdom to create meaningful solutions.
Key #8 - Clear Away Unrealistic Expectations, In Order To Prevent Emotional Reactions
Ask yourself what pre-judgements you have for yourself and others.
Create a context of understanding to see yourself and others as you are, rather than through an unrealistic lens. Ignorance comes from ignoring reality. Put realistic, healthy expectations and relationships in place. Disentangle your emotions from problems and unhealthy relationships. The more difficult a situation is, the more you need wisdom to gather information, create solutions, and decide on loving boundaries.
Key #9 - Have A Consistent Response
Respond to everything [past, present, good, bad, internal, and exterFnal] with courage, humility, and love.
Use forgiveness to be free from being emotionally controlled by anything not of love. Love’s power is not dependent on being against anything. Let the awareness of your heart control your emotions. The territory of your heart is the most important path of your life. Flood it with love. Where it is void of love, there is no power. Where there is love, the power of your life is unstoppable. Respond to all others’ paths with the power of your Love. Pour love into any area empty of love. Power pours love in; the opposite is to react – which means to try to force something. Flow with power, don’t force. Power transcends anywhere void of love. Angst brings reactivity and anxiety, and stops the flow of true power. Do not depend on anything except love. Share what you will, and continue flowing down the river. This is you creating the evolution of your life, and impacting all life.
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